I (15f) have always struggled making and keeping friendships for many different reasons. I have lots of truama around relationships and pretty bad mental health issues btw. Recently I switched schools and have been trying to make friends. Today my friends told me that our relationships were going nowhere and that I am a very dismissive and rude person. I don’t know how I’m rude, people in the past have called me similar things, but nobodies told me why. This is happening more often as I get older, I don’t know what to do, it greatly impacts my mental health and I want to have a real long lasting friendship really badly. Does anyone have any advice, or has gone through a similar experience?
(PS this is my first ever post so I’m not perfectly sure how to do this)