My boyfriend (25) is a friendly, extroverted person (i’m an introvert). He’s never given me a reason not to trust him but somehow it bugs me a lot to see that he’s the one that follows other girls on instagram even though he knows them. 80% of the girls that he follows don’t follow him back, so I don’t understand what is the need to follow? Maybe it’s not a healthy thing for me to obsess over it’s only social media after all but this is a thing that’s been the biggest problem for me and till this day it puts me in a bad mood. He doesn’t follow girls he doesn’t know or any models/half naked women. It’s another thing if the girl followed him first but in my head, i find it weird that he wants to add girls on socials even when they don’t follow back. How shall i feel about this? I want to talk to him about it but honestly I feel like i will sound childish and toxic.
Does anyone else feel similarly or experienced something like this?