I (32m) was seeing a (31f) woman who was saying she was separated and that he wanted a divorce as FWB. although we would work out, watch movies, go to shows and spend the nights together regularly until December last year we had met in February. I was genuinely trying to support her emotionally and help her grow in the direction she wanted. Over time 8 months I developed feelings and had told her how I felt she took a week to get back to me to where she came over then said she’d have to cut me off. When we talked I had asked “so you don’t think you would feel the same way?” She replied angrily “ you don’t know know that, you never know we might run into each other again or I’ll hit you up and you’ll have a girlfriend.” “You’re a great influence on me, never give up, and always we’re good to me.” And so I let her go like I was supposed to after being told while she is crying “you’re taking this pretty well for someone that claims to love me.” I later find out she would drink with friends till she blacks out, smoking, and skipping her medications and therapy. Have I done something wrong? What could I have done differently? I want to hear from her again send her flowers. I feel like I care for her too much and should have just kept my feelings to myself. I miss my friend. I haven’t tried to reach out in a month what would be a good amount of time to consider reaching out?