we’re both 19. she has masturbated only a couple times but said she doesn’t really feel anything. we have sex but she has absolutely no drive. i give her oral and play with her often but she doesn’t really react, just lays there. i’ve urged her to experiment alone to try figure it out but she just dismisses it.
i’m worried sex is just a chore for her. one time after i finished she said “job complete?”. not really sure what to do here. she never initiates, dislikes giving head, and only touches me if i ask. i’d prefer a more intimate relationship and of course for her to get satisfaction out of it. any advice?