My boyfriend of 5 years (45M) loves to use his tongue in my butt (51F) and then proceeds to go down on me. I can’t concentrate because all I can think of is being conditioned to always wipe FRONT to back to avoid infection.
The other thing that hangs over our intimate act, is that he is known by his friends to enjoy doing that, and that was “his thing”. Totally grosses me out. I feel it is so intimate and so that also stops me from truly enjoying the intimacy of it.
I’m probably overanalyzing it but he’s ruined it for me. How do I tell him without sounding like a prude?