When I feel sad or blue, I tend to tell my friends in order for them to possibly make me feel better, but a lot of the times I notice that they immediately start turning the conversation around and telling me how they feel and what they are doing at the moment. I don’t know if it’s selfish of me to expect them to help me feel better, but I would do that if it were the other way around. Is it reasonable to expect this from friends or am I being too selfish?