I (40F) have thought a lot recently about my husband (40M) going down on me after sex. I love oral sex better than anything else and that’s the only way I can get off unless I’m masturbating with a vibrator. I’ve had him go down on me a couple times after sex but I’d rather him do that every time we have sex. Part of it is that it feels amazing because I’m very sensitive after PIV, but also the dominant part that I want him to lick up his cum and clean me up. My husband is very submissive and will do pretty much anything I ask him to do but I think the post nut clarity gets him on this one. I’ve asked him if he is willing to do this and he always says yes but gets a little squeamish after sex so I’ve pushed his head down there a few times and he gets me off and cleans it up. I know he likes it because after I orgasm I look down at his penis and he’s rock hard lol.
For the other women out there, do you like it when he goes down on you after he cums? For the men, is this something that you’re willing to do for your partner? What are the best positions for doing this? I’d really like to do this each time but how can I get him past the post nut clarity issue?