just started being sexual with a guy i’m seeing and i gave him a BJ for the first time two days ago and it was so awkward. it was pretty much silent for the first couple minutes and i just felt really uncomfortable and awkward and i couldn’t really tell if he was enjoying it. it was my first time giving someone a BJ and i’m not sure if it was good or not (took him like 7 minutes to finish). any advice on how to make it less awkward?