EDIT: Ok, so we talked and apparently I miscommunicated that it was hurting me. She understands now and is ok with everything. I’ll deliver a few of the options given to me here to see if we can keep going. Thanks yall!
Hello, recently, my girlfriend and I have been having regualr sex, roughly 2 times a week. She has normally been getting off by simply riding me. I feel virtually nothing this way but I dont mind it. She asked to try grinding on me instead of insertion. For her, it’s mindblowingly amazing which is fantastic. The issue is that it makes my dick raw and therefore I cant feel anything, even after she is done.
I talked to her stating that it hurts and would like to find either another way or to do it less frequently if we are to continue. She said ok, but than a few minutes later she breaks down telling me how I get to cum multiple times during our sessions and that I’m taking away the best feeling she can get. But she also understands that it hurts me and does not expect me to hurt myself for her pleasure.
She can cum through toys or riding me but it’s not nearly as good, no other way appears to work no matter what I do, and it’s really starting to stress me out about how to continue.