I’m a M25 and I haven’t had any sexual experience before. Trying to make peace with it, hoping to get out there and date this year. However, I can’t help but fixate and worry about one specific topic when I think about my future sex life. I am convinced I will cum insanely early.
When I say insanely early, I mean instantaneously. Despite being a virgin, I feel like I have decent understanding of my body sexually. Platonic hugs from women I’m attracted to and slow dances at prom have left me with erections and if I were to ever kiss a girl I would bet that I would bust. I have never had a woman touch me in a sexual way or seen a naked woman in real life, so I’m worried that as soon as I’m touched or as soon as she takes her clothes off I’ll cum. That’s certainly not satisfying for anyone, and I would be left humiliated.
Would most women have a problem with this? Is it a massive turn off to cum that early, before foreplay even? Am I completely overthinking this? Any advice is greatly appreciated.