I love my partner; I say I do, but I don’t know.
He is lazy and not in the work sense but the house; he doesn’t do the chores. I have to beg him to go shower or make sure he takes his blood pressure tablets. The list is endless. I have voiced my concerns over the years, but he says he will do better but doesn’t. He’s overweight, a turn-off amongst the poor hygiene and lack of looking after the home. He pays his part of the bills, so I cannot complain he is a provider. I am, however, a law student and work part-time, and I still find the time to make sure dinner is taken out for the evening, but he doesn’t seem to be bothered; he leaves the house without doing dishes or anything. I love him, but I feel so alone; we don’t have sex often because he only showers if he wants sex, which I find disrespectful. I’m at my wit’s end and wish he was different; we want to have children, but I’m afraid that I will end up having a nervous breakdown. Can someone help me save my relationship 😪