I usually have no problem having friends and being friendly and having small talk with other people.
The problem is when I try to REALLY connect with people. Make them feel we have the same energy. It happened in the past, and it’s really rare. I know it’s supposed to be rare, but I wish it could be a bit easier. There are some people I like, but it seems like I can’t past the barrier of “Small funny talk” most of the time. It makes me feel alone sometime.
I know I’m a calm and chill person, and not one of these crazy super extrovert people and I accept that, I don’t want to change this thing.
What advice would you give me ?
Perhaps the solution is for me to affirm myself more, to affirm more who I am, without trying to be a people pleaser ?
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