F30 M30 Together for 10 years, married for 4. I’ve been comfortable as a stay-at-home mom for 4 years, but there are times when my husband and I disagree, and he suggests I leave to my parents’ if I don’t agree with him. There are certain things in our marriage that I don’t find acceptable, and I want to start working because I don’t feel secure knowing that if I disagree, he may ask me to leave without having a job to fall back on.
He makes great income but I don’t feel as my word is valued in this marriage and threatened every time. I don’t want to feel hopeless .
Are any of you SAHM?What’s your approach when conflicts arise or when someone gives you the silent treatment? I’ve never been a believer in the silent treatment, but this man sees it differently and is too proud to even consider it.