I (M) tell her all the time I absolutely LOVE when she dresses sexy for me. It really gets me going. But if we just jump right into sex, I’m close to her, I’m on top of her, or whatever, and don’t really get to SEE the lingerie or costume.
I’ve considered asking her to do some things around the house while I watch, but that feels kind of awkward and forced. At Christmas time she did a sexy dance and wore sexy Christmas lingerie which was perfect, but she can’t do a sexy dance every time she wears lingerie I guess. I’ve though about asking her to first touch herself while I watch, but we haven’t done that yet. I just want to look at her and have a little time to appreciate how sexy and amazing she is.
Maybe this is a stupid question. I don’t know. Does anyone else feel this way or is it just me? Any ideas?