Hi, I’m a disabled guy suffering with Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy. It causes my muscles to weaken over time. I haven’t really be actively dating. It feels like a lot of girls don’t want to date a dude in a wheelchair. Dating apps have been easier to use since I don’t have to go anywhere in person, but the really sick and I don’t get any matches. I could be going out more to meet women, but I can’t drive myself and it’s hard to find accessable bars and hangout spots. I’m really lonely and my muscles weakness doesn’t allow me to satisfy someone the way I would like to. I’m looking for any advice because the loneliness is killing me. Sometimes I feel like I’m unloveable because of my disability. Any advice would help. I’m looking for someone that can be my wife.
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Hey you are ONE HUNDRED PERCENT worthy of love. I guarantee that you will find someone caring and respectful if you just keep at it!
Try a recon trip around your area to find places where you feel included. Accessibility is for everyone. Not all bars/lounges/clubs in the USA have complied to the ADA laws here and it’s shameful. Go out and see where you can take a date out for billiards or French fries.
Does your muscle weakness prevent you from handing her a vibrator so you can watch her climax? I have sexual trauma and my amazing boyfriend satisfies me 100% by just being understanding and that is what really gets me ‘off’.