Its okay to be nosey. When you talk to people & ask them personal questions there really isn’t any issue saying straight up why you’re asking questions & think y’all really are overthinking this.

Like for real. Meet someone , and ask them to tell you a secret. If the conversation is genuine then there’s really no more to it. I got called a nosy homebody & I’ve never had an more succinct description to my social life. Bring snacks.