I’m 21(f) and lost my virginity last summer. I was seeing the guy who I lost it to throughout the summer, somewhat consistently, and the sex was really good with him (not painful). After the summer I stopped seeing him and didn’t sleep with anyone for about 5 months, but in the past two months I had two hookups (different people, about a month apart) and both were very painful. Is this because I’m not having sex consistently? Or is it because sex is new for me? Or maybe these guys were just bigger? Is there anything I could do? I want to enjoy casual hookups and one night stands without it being painful, so hoping it starts getting better.