I’ve been talking to him for a bit now, he met my family and friends, they like him a bunch. We call, sometimes hang out, talk about our problems and whatnot. 16F and 19M if that makes a difference. We’ve kissed, held hands, small things like that and I know he wants more(I’m not ready for that and I’m sure he gets that lol)
I recently asked him what he wanted out of talking with me because personally, I would only talk to someone in this way to date them. He told me that he isn’t ready for a commitment right now because he’s emotionally drained from his last relationship(he says she was a really bad person and he’s never had a relationship that went so badly). He told me he really likes me and that him not wanting a serious relationship has nothing to do with me. He also said that it isn’t that he’s not looking for a commitment in the future(he said he obviously wants to get married and have kids someday) but he just doesn’t feel ready right now.
I get that, tbh I trust him. Me and this guy are still talking, but I honestly don’t know what the situation is because I obviously like him (I don’t normally like people to the extent where I have to actively try to get over them) honestly, I would wait for him to be ready again. I just don’t know if that’s the right move, or if that’s something I should mention to him or just do.