For some context. We’ve known each other for 3 years. Met on Facebook and would call every day or text every day and video chat. This year we finally met in person after I left my toxic ex. We’ve been dating a few weeks.
He has had feelings for me for years. He is “self employed” and does odd jobs for a small living. He also doesn’t drive and lives over an hour away from where I’m staying. He has said he wants to move in together this year. But he refuses to move where I’m living where I have a full time job + amazing benefits, a second job and am a volunteer fire fighter, because he doesn’t wanna “lose his business”. Even though it would only be 40 mins from where he lives now.
He treats me like the princess I am though. But I honestly don’t know what to do.
Tl;dr : my boyfriend wants me to move in with him but refuses to move where I have my full time job and my second job