my bf and i are both in our 20s we’ve known each other for years as friends and are both very comfortable around each other but we recently started dating and i found out hes a virgin. that doesn’t bother me at all except for when we almost do anything he wants me to take control as hes less experienced. only problem is i was sexually assaulted in my previous relationship which he knows about and understands but its left me with lasting issues during sex to a point where i’ve had panic attacks and i struggle to take control at all. when we end up doing anything im scared im not going to be able to satisfy him and we’ll both be too nervous