I have been married for two years and for the most part i have been sexually inactive. I have had mental health issues which i am treating at the moment. I am taking medications for depression. Recently i have been completely out of drive. I just never feel the need for it. Even when i try i cant get it up. Last time when i tried it died during the act. It was devastating for me. Last night i did it and with alot of effort and tiredness i did finish. But it took alot and i am still tired. My usual timing was less. 3-5 minutes but last couple of times i have taken more than 10 with one time not finishing. Whats the problem here? It could be side effects of medication? Should i take something or should i quit my medications? It has helped me alot.