Okay, I haven’t found anything online about what’s happening to me so im trying here. My (F19) partner (M18) and I stopped using a condom after I got my IUD a month ago and sex doesn’t feel good anymore. It’s not because of a lack of lube either, it just doesnt feel pleasurable to me and I dont get a lot out of it. I thought initially I probably just wasn’t used to the feeling of it raw but I still don’t feel anything no matter how much foreplay or toys are involved. I don’t know if it’s because we used ultra ribbed condoms (which were pretty thick) in the past, but I asked my mom who’s a nurse and she said it isn’t supposed to feel this way. My doctor said the same thing. Now I’m worried there’s something wrong with me or that I messed myself up somehow because we used thick condoms. Is there anything I can do?
edit: forgot to mention it but changing positions doesnt work either. everything either just feels weird, or it feels like my partner is going to slip out of me at any second.