22 (ftm) and i don’t know how to masterbate/Dosnt feel good.
Growing up I never had a interest in masterbation, and while also being trans with gender dysphoria, That didn’t really help my case in trying.
I’m on medication now tho which has spiked my libido and has made me eager to try.
In the past I once attempted to finger myself, but I kept hitting a wall. I didn’t know why and was scare to push forward, so I gave up and never tried again. Come tonight where I actually bought a mirror to see what I was doing. I eventually found the actual hole (I think?) and very slowly inserting a finger in. But it just didn’t feel good, like at all
Not painful but very werid and dry. To be fair I was doing this without lube, and wasn’t that horny to begin with so I wasn’t thatwet either. But I feel even if I was and had lube, the sensation alone just feels like nothing/weird.
A lot of the time when I’m horny, I do rub myself though my shorts, but it would never go on for very long. 15 second max, And than I just stop or do it on and off. And when doing it skin on skin, I just don’t feel anything, it just feels like skin.
So I feel like I’m doing something wrong? I don’t watch porn either as that just doesn’t do anything for me.
Is it possible to get off with just your fingers or is it actually required to have lube/feel horny in order to feel the pleasure?? I don’t get it.
Iv also heard suggestions about “buying toys” but I can’t really do that atm for various of reasons