My ‘F 36’ boyfriend ‘M 30’ of 5 months has a business partner with whom he meets regularly at the partners house.
His wife ‘F 33’ has in separate occasions found ways and excuses to have one on one interactions with my boyfriend to the point I believe inappropriate. At first I didn’t think much of it when it was about a yard sale she insisted he participated in. Then trying to fizzing up to me in an overly familiar way g I sensed something up one time I joined them at the house)… she sends him voicenotes from a mutual friends birthday party and having the birthday guy invite my boyfriend over
YET THE CHERRY ON THE CAKE is now she asked him to “teach her how to play guitar” an activity famously known as for hand touching and soft whispering to each other….
He asked what I thought about that and I told him it was not a good idea to teach guitar lessons to your associate’s wife, (particularly when that’s not what you do for a living). He’s a CEO. And a partner at another company. I must add I felt extra offended that he considered this as even viable since I am recovering for mayor surgery and haven’t practically left the house for a month. Imagine how I’d feel sitting alone in a house while he goes out singing tunes with someone that constantly requires his attention.
Should I bring it up to him directly as such?!? Or should I just keep the business angle?
Am I tripping ?!?
TLDR: I fell like my ‘f36’ boyfriend’s ‘m30’ colleague’s wife ‘f33’ is making moves on him. Should I bring it up to him directly as such?!? Or should I just keep the business angle?