So I’ve been with my girlfriend for like 4 years now and I go down on her almost every time we have sex. Since the beginning of the relationship she has never really been the type to reciprocate at all, even if I just go down on her and don’t try to have sex I end up getting nothing in return other than a “thank you” (rarely that).
So I’m just wondering, is there something I’m doing wrong? Can I do something to make her enjoy it more or at least think about it? I always make sure I’m clean, I always guide her through it and tell her exactly what feels good but??
I don’t know do I just need to ask her? I don’t want to make her do something if she doesn’t even want to…
Any advice is appreciated, thank you.