Hi All, was reading the comments in the boduire pics post (if you did not see it, a woman had some naked pics taken without telling her husband and husband got upset). I was absolutely floored by some of the comments so I would really like to know. . .
Why does the idea of someone **seeing** your partner naked make you feel so upset? On the other hand, it would be great to get some examples as to why it does not matter to anyone who like myself, cannot see what the big deal is.
For context I live in Germany and people are naked all the time, in parks, on the beach, in the sauna. Most saunas in Berlin have co-ed changing rooms where when you arrive you just go to a single changing room where everyone undresses and puts on a sauna robe for comfort. Then before you enter the sauna you hang the robe on a hook and everyone enters the sauna with a towel to sit on, but there is no covering of ‘special parts’ in the changing room, the steam room, or the sauna (people just walk around and sit totally naked).
In my reality people are primates, nudity is natural, people seeing you naked is fine. Clothing is about comfort and modesty in our day to day lives. Getting some sexy time pictures taken by a person who sees my wife naked would not phase me in the slightest. Can anyone explain this strange reality to me. Thanks!
EDIT: why would you come in and downvote everyone’s comments rather than offering genuine context to a valid inquiry. seems pretty strange in a sub that’s all about open expression and communication?