I had a very scary and stressful relationship with my child’s father and I moved out with my daughter and i have 70/30 shared custody. I frequently have weekends to myself and I just realized recently that I went from NEEDING to get off at least 3 times per week (on my own) to going weeks on end with no activity. No sex in a year and 3 months. I do have dirty thoughts sometimes and when that used to happen, I would get to work and satisfy myself. Now, I just move on to another thought.
If it keeps going this way and I don’t meet anyone, will I lose my desire altogether?
TL;DR Use it or lose it?