Just out of curiosity, how does everyone feel about this situation.
I used to catch my ex partner frequently masturbating in bed, while he thought I was sleeping next to him. I used to hear him masturbating in the bathroom, and I would walk in on him masturbating in the room.
Partner never wanted to have sex with me. I would initiate, initiate, and nothing would happen. He would turn me down. He was too tired. I tried a couple things and different ways to get his attention but nothing worked.
Am I wrong to feel a little upset and disrespected at the situation?
Edit: we’re not together. We divorced. I wrote this post quickly so I didn’t check for errors. I was just curious as I brought this up to a couple girlfriends and they thought it was really strange.