18f my boyfriend is 18m.
Sometimes I can just want to give him a blowjob or sometimes all we have is 5 minutes and I want a quick something.
Am I going to cum from 3 minutes of thrusting? No. Do I still have fun? Yes. He says he feels bad if I don’t and that in turn makes me feel bad and makes it less fun.
I get it all this media telling guys to be more considerate in bed and I’m sure it was a real good thing as we moved away from the only form of sex being women being cum depositories so we could pop out 12 kids, as half were going to die and we needed them working for that half a shilling a day . But I’m starting to think we overcorrected.
Like this man broke his foot, barely any time after he gets it casted I’m at his house and I suck his dick. After he’s asking to eat me out and I mention doesn’t that foot need to be as stationary as possible and he’s like yeah then tries to suggest weird fucking positions that him give me head. Then when I said just to use his hands he mentioned it “not really being fair on you”
Omg sex doesn’t have to be “fair” ffs 🤦♀️