I really want to start by saying I really appreciate her a lot. The sex life is great and we have sex at least once or twice a day and we perform oral sex on each other. We both work from home so we are next to each other all the time and during the day she typically will give me a BJ 3 times excluding when we have sex. This has gone on for about 2 months and I find myself getting tired and having no energy to go to the gym after (maybe I’m getting old? And can’t keep up with her? Lol) in the last 2 months I have gained 12 lbs because I have no energy after. Last night I asked her why she sucks it so often and she said she likes how it looks and said it makes her happy. She looked at me all sad and asked if she’s not doing a good job which she obviously is but I just want to tell her to chill out on it a little bit.
Am I overreacting? How would you discuss this with her?