So, I have a wonderfull GF and she takes really good care of her health and is even kinda teaching me to take care of mine better. She only have sex with condoms, getting pregnant is not a problem cause we cant, its just that she is afraid of getting stds from me (she was cheated by her ex).
The problem is, we have unprotected oral sex all the time, I pointed that It was pointless than to use condoms and that I could get tested from everything she wanted monthly, still its a no no.
I worry that she will never feel safe about no protection, and condoms a lot of the times makes me go soft (I notice that the really expensive brands makes the problem less “bad”) and im really trying to find the best brands to work around, but its demoralizing to be horny as fuck and Go soft as soon as I put It on.
Can I do something better? Any tips? Do I Just suck It up? (The hipocrisy of the oral sex, sometimes gets to me, also I cant speak about that topic with her, cause she feels I dont care about her health If I bring It up, maybe I dont know how to communicate, but I do care about her very much ).