I found the girl that makes my life easier instead of harder….really weird concept. Recently went through a lil hiccup that was borderline break up worthy but being that everything else is perfect in our relationship it definitely makes more sense for us to be together than too split. But being faced w the reality that I might not have my corn muffin in my life anymore really put a lot into perspective.
I’ve always had the problem of not realizing what I have in my life until I don’t and I’m really lucky I got to get a taste of that without all the way losing her. We’ve both put it past us for some time now but I do want to make the jump from young 20’s boyfriend to the hold the house down type of guy.
My question to the guys that have done it (girl, house, job, kids)…what did the transition from your knuckle head 20’s into your 30’s and 40’s look like and what advice would you give yourself if you could talk to your younger self.