hi! this is a throwaway acc for obvious reasons (i am genuinely looking for advice from other women/people with a vagina so pls no horny messages, i will not respond).
i’m 19f (not sure if it’s relevant) and a virgin, but i’m worried about actually having sex with someone bc i found out that i squirt and idk how to stop it.
my problem is, whenever i use a penetrative toy, i squirt, or like, gush a lot of mf liquid when i climax and i can’t control it, and i never did this when i was just doing external stuff.
im pretty sure i even peed the first time, and it was really embarrassing and a huge mess to clean up. whenever i wanna use any toys now, i have to make sure to pee right before, but even when i do, i still somehow have a lot of liquid coming out whenever i climax, and even leading up to a climax.
i’m now super worried for whenever the day i have my first time, bc it’s genuinely embarrassing that i can’t control myself, and i don’t wanna have to set up hella towels and be prepared to make a mess every single time i wanna have sex.
does anyone have any advice to help me not squirt (idk if it’s squirting or not – it’s not pee i don’t think bc there’s no smell and it’s clear liquid) whenever i have penetrative sex?? or how to at least lessen the amount that comes out, bc it’s a lot.
thank you!!