Hey everyone, I (19M) had an old FWB back in fall semester of my college, let’s call her R. R met me through a cry for help post and got to know em through my extreme desperation for touch and a relationship at the time. For some reason, she decided to be my cuddle buddy. Well when we cuddled for the first time we ended up fooling around. Eventually this became a regular thing and became my FWB. We never went to full piv, but at one point it did “slip in”. Anyway, she ended up getting a bf and we stopped talking because he was uncomfy with our relationship. She tried to help me out throughout that whole time to get a gf, but she ended up just being very uncomfy. One thing that stuck with me is that she ended the FWB before meeting her bf, and said to the extent of “it’s mainly because your getting feels and I don’t wanna hurt you, but you’re so god damn desperate. You don’t listen to my advice and complain about assholes getting the girl. That’s their choice and shit up about it, focus on yourself and fuck relationships.” (To be fair, I did end up becoming attached because she TECHNICALLY took my virginity) My only question is: should I apologize to her for being so creepy and desperate? She was One of my closest friends for a while (I wonder why lol) and I want there to be no bad blood between us. I also want to be friends together again someday. Her bf is the one that made me cut contact. What do you guys think?

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