So I lost my virginity pretty late in life. I was 29 (now 31)
Crazy I know.
I’m in a steady relationship with a woman I really love (not the woman I lost my v-card with). She’s fantastic & gorgeous.
But I can’t orgasm with her.
My guess is years and years of masturbating and my brain is just conditioned to getting off only via masturbation. Not only isn’t the vagina as tight as my own grip, It’s also too wet. Meaning I’m not getting any friction.
It’s really affecting my mental health and it worries me about my relationship(and future ones) The last thing I’d want is for her to leave me because of it.
My goal to completely stop masturbating all together & force reset the whole thing. The longest I’ve gone is a week but every now and then I just slip into old habits. It’s very difficult.
I guess I’m asking for any tips or incite from people who’ve experienced the same or something similar.
I’m not necessarily addicted to porn. I have a vivid imagination and don’t need anything visual to get off.