TL;Dr Guide that answers frequently asked questions and includes common responses to similar stories in r/relationships
Everyone makes the same posts here so I made this guide:
1. If you think that they are cheating, they probably are.
2. If they cheat on you once, they will do it again, leave them.
3. If he doesn’t want to have sex with you anymore, you either aren’t attractive to him anymore, you’ve denied him so many times it’s just not worth the effort, or his penis doesn’t work.
4. If he’s having trouble finishing or maintaining an erection, he’s probably watching too much porn/deathgrip syndrome and should chill out for a little while.
5. If she doesn’t wanna have sex with you anymore, you aren’t attractive to her anymore, or you suck at foreplay and she’s sick of you using her for 30 seconds as a human flashlight. Probably both.
6. If their “type” based on who they follow on socials or masturbate to doesn’t match up with your look, it does NOT automatically mean they don’t want you or find you attractive. People on social media will be hotter than you, it’s just reality.
7. If they are abusive, manipulative, irrational,explosive, leave. They will not change.
8. Not everything is a result of narcissism or gaslighting or manipulation.
9. Trauma is real but stop using it so flippantly to excuse all your actions.
10. Don’t hook up with guys that have multiple BMs or girls with multiple BDs. They’re ratchet and have bad judgement.
11. Don’t let your partner control your life but at the same time, setting boundaries and expectations does not equate to controlling behavior.
12. If you’re a teenager, try to chill out and just enjoy the ride a bit. You’re in the good times and while your relationship may seem like all that matters now, for most of you it doesn’t at all in the long run.
13. For the love of Christ COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR PARTNER!!! The “I’m fine” silent treatment followed by “I just think it’s funny that…” has literally never worked for anyone once in the history of relationships.
14. Whatever the issue, it’s probably both your faults.
Am I missing anything?