Is there any hope? My husband grew up with a single mother who was neglectful and abusive. When he is up for talking he says that he wants to have a healthy marriage and family but he doesn’t know how to gain communication skills. We currently live pay check to pay check and I’ve been trying to find a job since September so currently on one income. He says he’ll go to therapy again once we have more income. He’s gone twice in our 5 year marriage, only for a couple of sessions each time. Talking about feelings for long periods of time burns him out. Any avoidants here who can give me hope?
TL;DR: my husband is an extreme avoidant and I don’t know what to do