Hi,
I guess the only real way to explain this is by telling about me.
I’m 20 M
So the last 3 months I’ve been dating this girl and things do feel very right with her and I enjoy panting time with her. During this period I have not been able to finish with her a single time, I don’t know if it’s stress or some kind of performance anxiety? But this has been an issue for me the last 18 months or so with girls. (I’ve been fine by myself)
However today I decided to masturbate by myself because I hadn’t finished in 3 months..
I managed to make myself finish by thinking and looking at stuff she had sent me.. which I think is pretty positive but (not to be too TMI) there was a LOT of cum and as I was finishing there was like a burning id say is the best way to describe it – not like a sore burn, more of a tingly sensation – in my ass, idk if this is normal? Presumably not since I’ve never had this before
In a way it feels as if I’ve broken the streak of being unable to finish
I’m not sure who I should speak to about this? As I cannot find anything online so i thought I would put my deepest secrets on here.
For extra information before dating this girl I had a couple one night stands before which I had never finished with before and one long term girlfriend from 15-18 ish which I was able to finish with but not consistently
For extra extra information when I first started masturbating at a young age I would say I did it in a not normal way to make myself finish – I won’t go into specifics but it isn’t the proper way I would say
What do I do from here? Do I wait till my next sexual experience my girlfriend or do I go speak to someone??
Literally any advice or anything will help