My office manager whom I supervise thinks she remembers everything exactly. And, maybe she does remember most things, but not all. She has a bad habit of saying, “but you said…” when I give her instructions that may differ from what I’ve said previously or what she thinks she remembers. It’s getting worse and is driving me nuts and making me feel like I am nuts. I am more forgetful since having covid. This isn’t helpful. I don’t want to say I dont remember what I previously said. I just want her to say ok and ask for clarification if she needs it. I would love advice to help me find words to use when I get that kind of pushback.