Well I have been talking to and seeing this man for 3 months now and it has been pretty easy at the begging, we’ve talked a lot online before meeting, the first date was amazing even though he always told me he was a very shy person, and things began to evolve little by little, we talked about the future, and we decided to take it slowly, everything was cool until recently he began to show signs of avoidant attachment style behavior, he was talking about moving in together, then gosting me for 2 or 3 days after that, one day he is so attached, he tells me he likes a lot and he’s very happy with me, and goes back suddenly to being very cold, I really like him but this behavior became really confusing to me, I understand that people with this type of attachment sometimes need their space and that they can easily be triggered and overwhelmed with emotions whatsoever but I may lack of information about how to deal with these situations..
It happened again yesterday, the night before he was blaming me for not calling neither asking about him or asking to see him, while I found that really weird because I didn’t want to be a burden since the last time I asked to see him he said may be another day so I just gave him space and I expected him to get in touch when he wants, so since he reacted that way I texted him yesterday asked about how he was doing the conversation was very normal until I asked him if he wanted to hang out he suddenly disappeared and didn’t answer till now, I even called him because I was worried about him and he didn’t answer neither get back to me
Did I do something wrong, I am really confused right now, and I really care about him so I need advice about how I should be dealing with him?