Hey everyone! I’m a 32M that recently started a relationship with a 33F who is very experienced, sexually. Not so much for me though. I only had two partners before and had sex just a few times. I let her know I was not that confident in my ability and she’s being such an angel taking it slow with me. I’m also finding out I’m actually not that bad at it and I guess I have a nice package (by that I mean I have a nice dick).
She has a tight pussy that I can only fit only finger in, but I haven’t been able to cum with or without a condom (don’t worry, we are being careful). She also can’t cum from penetration. We talked about it and came to the pretty obvious conclusion that we’re just too good at getting ourselves off that the natural way isn’t gonna do it anymore. But, we want to change that.
She mentioned sensitivity training for me. How would I begin that? By not masturbating at all? Is that all I would have to do? Or keep experimenting with positions and rhythm to see what gets me close?
Hypothetically speaking, if we ended up wanting kids in the future I would need to be able to cum inside her, and of course cumming inside is such an intimate experience that we both want.
So, any tips on how I can start regaining sensitivity?
Edit: Forgot it was my birthday yesterday and I’m actually 32 🥴