I have two men that are madly in love with me. The first one is who I feel I have a genuine connection with and are extremely attracted to him and feel so safe with him but he has to reestablish himself in order to be a provider and to himself back in a position where’s he’s able to contribute beyond physical/emotional. I trust him however and know he’s willing to put in the work.
The other guy is established, stable, and creating more independent opportunities for
himself, his future, and the one child he has already. I also trust him but aren’t technically attracted to him unfortunately and wish I was. He’s more my speed as far as being established goes and I know he would provide me a good life as I’m divorced with a 7-y/o son from an past marriage.
Both men are great and I know they’re both willing to go above and beyond to make me happy but I feel like my feelings are more for the first guy whereas the second guy is more of security.
Please help