We were close friends. But after I confessed my feelings for him, he started to act cold when we’re alone together. In front of friends, he acts as if nothing happened. Now, I am in so much pain I don’t think I can handle it. I need help.

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  1. I mean, have you brought it up with him when you’re alone? He is likely annoyed and feeling awkward, I’d guess.

  2. What did you expect to happen? There was no way he was ever going to reciprocate your feelings, it was only ever going to end in you getting hurt.

    He probably has no idea how to act around you now. If you want to remain friends you need to work on getting over your feelings and have a conversation with him about things returning to the way they were and let him know you will ensure your feelings don’t get in the way of that.

  3. ..wait, he’s male and gay, and you’re a woman…? This is the outcome I would have predicted, if he isn’t Bi..

    I’m sure it’s just awkward for him in trying to figure out how to proceed with your friendship, it’s possible that in time everything will be okay

  4. try to imagine yourself in a situation similar to the one you’ve now put him in. one of your close female friends comes up to you and confesses her feelings for you. you’d feel awkward right ?? conflicted because you don’t want to ruin your friendship ??

    i think he just needs some time to process what you’ve told him and WHY u decided to tell him when you kinda knew he wouldn’t be interested in you.

  5. I don’t know what you expected. Your friendship will never be the same now that he knows this and it probably makes him uncomfortable.

  6. I guess you could borrow Mike Pence’s jumper cables…

    Seriously though, you crossed a boundary. You disrespected his identity. You need to apologize and admit that it was inappropriate.

  7. I guess you could borrow Mike Pence’s jumper cables…

    Seriously though, you crossed a boundary. You disrespected his identity. You need to apologize and admit that it was inappropriate.

  8. You shouldn’t of confessed your feelings. He’s gay and you made it weird. He just doesn’t know how to act when alone with you now due to the elephant in the room. In the future, you might want to think about if your confession can be reciprocated first.

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