I(24F) have been having sex for two years now. The first guy I was with wasn’t that big so I did not experience any issues besides the usual blood when losing virginity. Not too long after I got together with my partner now. He’s a lot bigger. The first month of having sex was with a lot of blood and pain. Everyone told me this was normal and I’d get used to it.
However 2 years later and I’m still having this issue. The bleeding has decreased a lot since my doctor made scar tissue inside of me to stop it from tearing open and bleeding so fast (turns out I’m prone to bleed easily), but the pain has not gone away.
When we start it usually also hurts a bit but that’s negligible. I cannot stand him inside of me after I finish (the pleasure rush goes away) AND we cannot have sex for at least two days bc it burns so much. We can afterwards but then it still hurts but it’s durable.
It’s not a problem of wetness bc we use lube and have made sure of that a lot. I’ve felt a bit around the places where it hurts and it seems my bones or whatever is there could cause my skin to be squished when he thrusts???
I’m so lost on what to do and it’s so frustrating. Anyone has any clue on what it might be and how to solve it? You’d be my angels thank you.
(He does not make an issue out of this btw)
Ps. Could it be because of birth control? I was off birth control for 3 months last year and by the end of it I had less problems with this …