Hi.. so recently me and my boyfriend have been somewhat disconnected in the bedroom. I’ve talked to him some about what I
enjoy, and some ideas on how we can spice things up.. I’m very into BDSM, and brought into submission.. but i’m not very sure how to tell him what do to or how to do it. I’ve told him about my kinks before, but it seems like he disregards them (it’s never fallen through). Most of the time I initiate, but he puts me in whatever basic position he wants and I have a hard time finishing. My boyfriend says he’s not opposed to trying new things, but when he does it never last. Is there any advice or tips I can use to encourage new actions in bed?