For some context: my husband and I decided together, at the very beginning of our relationship, that we were not going to watch porn while we were together. This got 0 pushback from him, and has been the rule for years. He definitely knows this and remembers. Recently I found out he had been creating throwaway reddit accounts and I believe he has been doing this for years. He covers his tracks and deletes them and creates new ones every so often. I thought this might be for another reason but I also just discovered that he has a MEGA account. I know that a lot of people watch porn and I know it’s hard to stay away from, but if this actually turns out to be a porn addiction the thing I can’t get over is the lying. If he had come to me early on and admitted he struggled with this it would be easier to get over. But we also have a great relationship so it’s hard to know what to do here. I don’t know if I am comfortable being with someone who feels like they can lie to me that easily for that long, but I also feel like there are worse problems to have in a relationship too. Any advice you have would be appreciated. I will be investigating further in the coming weeks to make sure my suspicions are actually confirmed so I don’t make any rash judgements.
TLDR: My husband most likely has a porn addiction he never told me about and I don’t know if I should leave him over this.