Me(27F) and my Bf(24m) dating for 4 years but recently he’s been a bit distant and closed off. I think he might be cheating on me. He has stopped texting me as much as he use to and ignores my calls most of the time. Sometimes he cancels dates because he says he forgets. He’ll say he is busy and doesn’t have time. Sometimes he’ll say he’s with a friend. A few weeks ago I found out his friend he’s busy with is a girl. He didn’t mention she was a girl. I found out because he shared a picture of her in his story. He spent the day with her when it was her birthday. He didn’t text me back that day. When I asked him about her all he says is she’s a friend. But he has spent hours with her somedays. Yesterday he texted me ‘sorry busy today’ after he left me on read. Found out he was busy with her all day yesterday. When I asked him about her again he just ignored my question. All he could say is “sorry I was busy.” Is he cheating?
TL;DR my BF is spending a lot of time with his new female friend and is ignoring me when I ask him questions about her. He’s spending hours with her and when he doesn’t answer my texts he says he was busy with a friend. He didn’t mention his friend was a girl until I found out he shared a picture of her. He might be cheating.