Dealing with a weird situation right now where a friend who I normally would talk to everyday is definitely distancing themselves, but her texting patterns make absolutely no sense. I understand people have lives and can’t reply all the time, but from knowing her I do know she’s active on social media and not replying. What baffles me is that I haven’t been dry, I don’t play any texting games (mirroring her reply times), and she double texts/asks about me when I’m busy and don’t reply for about 2ish hours?
How do I deal with this? Do I stop replying to her for hours as well? Do I just ask her what’s going on? I honestly feel disrespected when she initiates the convo, I respond and then she just stops replying for no reason.
For example, she reached out yesterday in the morning and said “Heyy” then brought up a random topic. I texted back about 20 mins later asking a question and now it’s been over 24 hours with no response. Why reach out in the first place then? Would appreciate any advice!