I (42F) have been sexually active since I was a teenager. It just recently occured to me that I have no idea what I’m into. I just really want my partner to be happy. Partner is dominant? I’m your sub! Partner is submissive! I’ll be a Dom! Partner into vanilla? I’m the most vanilla person ever.
I guess my question is, is this a thing? Has anyone else gone through it? How do you figure out what you want?