Me and my partner been living together for 3 years. Then this dude who is persistent in chatting her but she just ignoring him, Because we’re together, to my surprise is her childhood crush/fling.
This summer the guy visited his relatives in our province and other of his friends near our place. So my partner and that guy meet. And even asking my partner to go with them together with their other childhood friends cause they’r having a beach outing.
Which I didn’t agree with because I know this guys who keeps chatting(flirting) with my partner and they’re all guys. Even I know some of them. I didn’t let my partner to go.
Then last week my partner is applying to work abroad. I found out that she meet the guy after her errand for applying. That they’re already been chatting in I.G. a week ago before they meet. She just deleting it and chat when im at work or asleep she confessed. She say that it’s just a friendly meet up cause it was like almost a decade that they didn’t see each other. And it supposedly just roaming around and eat. But she finished her errands about 9pm already and they meet at 10pm.
We are still chatting that day so I told her that the earliest bus to go back is 1am. She even say that she’s with other two girl that is applying too. Then she chatted me in the morning saying. She just got a bus at 5am. That she and other girls just check-in before they catch a bus. Cause they’r too tired of that day. And they just want to rest. Cause the other came from other far province too. Which I believe,
So days passed by, It still bothering me. Something off with that. So one time i accidentally saw her booking in a grab that has a time and date with location to a certain hotel. At first she’s say its nothing bla blah blah. Then later on I convince her to confess all the things she did from the start. How she end up being with that guy at the hotel for 4 hrs before going back home.
She says that they meet at 10 pm they roam around and eat. Then the guy ask her if she is tired then ask to check in. She agree with it cause she is tired and haven’t sleep that day. And that is just her purpose of agreeing to just rest. And even say that there’s nothing happened, The guy insisted to but she refuse and say I’m her first so she just want it to be with me. So they end up sleeping next to each other and she say he hug her while sleeping . But then she say that they kissed.
What should I do? I need advice.
What should I believe?
I really love her. And I believe she can’t do that kind of things but I’m confuse. Please enlighten me.